talk your feelings out with people!!! don’t bottle them up!!!!!! if you’re scared of what will happen remember good friends care about your feelings and if they don’t they aren’t your friends!!! don’t internalize your issues with people it will only make your life worse and poison your relationships!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hate this notion that universities need to let literally anyone speak or else you’re stifling knowledge. Here’s something that stifles knowledge: having to explain very basic things over and over. If you let someone barge into a medical laboratory and yell “everyone stop what you’re doing and prove to me that germs exist”, that’s stifling knowledge. Shutting everything down so that a neo-nazi can calmly ask whether black people are people does not enrich a learning environment in any way, It drags everything down and exhausts everyone. Free speech absolutism is crude and unsophisticated, we need to acknowledge that sometimes speech has deleterious effects on the free speech of others.
Anthony Michael Hall and Molly Ringwald in a record shop during a break while filming The Breakfast Club, 1984








